Soccer Coaching Your Own Children

Every parent will at some point end up questioning the nature of their involvement in a child’s co-curricular or extracurricular activities. We want to be helpful and influential; and while we understand that there are boundaries, the lines are not always clear and bright.

For parents whose children are involved in sports, the time will come when you will ask yourself: “? I have to train my son/daughter myself”

This is not a question to be taken lightly. As a parent, there’s a lot to consider beyond your knowledge of the sport – many more questions to ask yourself and your child before making a decision to Bandar Casino Terbaik, or not to coach.

The first question asked should always be: “? Does my child want me to coach?” If the answer to that question is an emphatic “no”, then you should probably take it no further. You can always just keep doing your own parenting coaching at home between practice and play, if that’s what you’re already doing.

Younger kids are generally OK with mom or dad playing the team coach/captain role, but older kids tend to have more problems with it. At a certain age, usually around 13 or 14 years old, parents become embarrassing to their teens, and they want to do as little public as possible with their parents. You have to respect this, because it is part of the maturing process.

If you are asked to coach out of necessity, you can offer to coach another team. This will satisfy both the league’s need for a coach, and your child’s need for someone different from the parent as his team coach.

Second, ask yourself, Are you qualified? At ages 6-10, a basic knowledge of skills and strategies is sufficient for most sports coaches. Older children will need a coach who is more experienced in sports skills and strategy.

In addition to your knowledge of the game, there are other qualities that a good coach will have:

* Patience with your own child as well as others * Good communication – it’s not enough to be a good player yourself; You must be able to pass on those skills and wisdom to the people you coach.

It’s important to draw a clear line between your roles and keep them separate! Dad isn’t Coach, and Coach isn’t dad. When you’re on the field, you’re not Dad. And when you’re at home, you’re not the Coach.

Of course you’ll talk about home games after practice, but be careful what you talk about. Talking strategy is one thing; but interfering with each other over disagreements is clearly a bad idea.

It’s important that you treat your child exactly the same way you treat every other player on the team. Don’t be softer, but don’t be harsh either. Don’t one of your kids drop out for every extra instruction, either because he’s better or because he’s worse than the other players. You must provide a positive and productive teaching experience for all players.

And lastly, don’t coach your own child for more than a few years. Children need to learn other leadership styles and experience having other people as their boss. There are times when you have to admit that someone else has to train your child.